My Writings

This is where I come to write about stuff. It is also where I answer questions people ask me at my speaking engagements, through social media or my clients ask during coaching sessions. I know if one person is asking there are others with the same question or who are struggling with the same issue.

I Will Be Happy When…

We tell ourselves, “I will be happy when…” Then, when we reach the desired goal and happiness isn’t standing there waiting for us so we can live happily ever after, we assume it was the wrong goal. Standing in our void of happiness, we shrug our shoulders and create a new happiness destination.

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Everything Isn’t About Me

When people speak, they are just presenting their opinion or preference. When people are mean they are just revealing their insecurities. Or they are not being mean at all, I am filtering what they are saying to make it about me causing me to stand in victimhood. Everything isn’t about me. When people ask questions, they are being curious, they are not accusing me or passive-aggressively insulting me.

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Why is ghosting becoming the norm? Why is this acceptable?

It takes confidence, self-assuredness, and respect for others to reply to a call or email, especially when it’s someone you know or have been communicating with. What happened to the simple act of telling someone “Thanks” when you receive the email containing something you discussed they’d send you?

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Roadmap to Change

New thoughts lead to, New choices that, Create new actions that, Introduce new experiences that, Generate new feelings and emotions that, Lead to more new thoughts that,
Alter your biology and Ultimately change your brain.

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The Brain Thinks But The Heart Knows

It’s said that “The brain thinks but the heart knows.” But for some, the brain is so loud and demanding that the messages from the heart become mere whispers. These messages that hold our best interest, our wants, needs and desires can go unheard.

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Through Failure to Opportunity

Day after day I have conversations with people who are stuck. When they tell me their story of stuckness, they inevitably revolve around a perceived failure they cannot move on from… Let’s flip the script regarding failure and the power “fear of failure” can have over us.

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No Valid Excuses

“I can’t do that so many people are already doing it.” Yes. But they have proven there’s a need. Go do it your way, be different. People need a variety to choose from. No one thing is a good fit for everyone.

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Leaders vs. Micromanagers

So many micromanagers think they’re good leaders. Not everyone is meant to be a leader. There’s more than one way to do a job or complete a task and pretty much all of them are “the right way”. Are you a leader or micromanager?

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The Danger of Assuming

I’ve been having more and more conversations these days about assuming. Specifically, regarding people avoiding conversations that are in their best interest because they assume it

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